The Slow Becoming

(Heartful Writings – Part 8)

Healing doesn’t always feel like progress. Sometimes it feels like pausing. Like not having the words. Like getting through the day… and nothing more.

But even that is part of it. Even that is movement.

Becoming is not always about doing —

Sometimes, it’s about staying soft when it would be easier to shut down.


The Kind of Growth No One Applauds

The world celebrates loud victories:

finishing the race, launching the dream, crossing the finish line.

But I want to celebrate this:

The moment you chose rest instead of pushing.

The time you cried and didn’t apologize for it.

The day you didn’t answer every message, because your soul needed silence.

The breath you took when you felt like giving up — but didn’t.

This is healing, too. This is becoming.


The Tender Power of Showing Up — Softly

You don’t have to show up strong. You don’t have to show up shining.

You just have to show up — with your tired hands, with your aching hope, with your imperfect, beating heart.

Because the real courage?

It lives in the quiet moments when you show up anyway.


You Are Still Becoming — Even Here

Even when it’s messy. Even when you feel behind. Even when you’re not sure if anything is changing at all.

You are still becoming.

In the slowing. In the listening. In the softness.

You are still unfolding — gently, honestly, in your own sacred time.


You Don’t Owe the World Your Speed — Only Your Truth

Let others rush.

You? You move in rhythm with your breath. You heal with grace, you grow with stillness, and you honor the pace your soul actually needs.

There is nothing weak about that. It is holy. It is powerful. It is enough.


📬 If these words met you where you are — tired, soft, trying — then let them stay. Subscribe to keep walking this path with gentle reminders like this, one tender step at a time.


💭 A Reflection for You:

What would change if you stopped trying to bloom faster —

and just started trusting the soil beneath you?


Write it. Feel it. Even a small whisper of softness can be the start of everything new.

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  1. Susana Cabaço Avatar

    Beautifully written and full of meaning! Honoring our path, our pace, and our healing is honoring our truth. And that’s the foundation of becoming. Loved the reflection at the end. Giving thanks for these words of wisdom and encouragement, Mustafa. Much appreciated! Light and blessings to you, always! 🙏✨

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    1. msaitsabuncu Avatar

      What a beautiful comment… Thank you so much for your heartfelt words, my dear friend. May light, grace, and healing accompany your own journey. I’m so glad our paths crossed 🌿✨

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      1. Susana Cabaço Avatar

        The feelings our mutual, my friend! Thank you for being part of my path 🙏✨

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  2. Ionelia Constantinescu Avatar

    This touched something deep in me. 🌿 Sometimes the quietest parts of our journey — the pauses, the softness, the silence — hold the most sacred growth. I especially felt this line: “You don’t owe the world your speed — only your truth.” What a powerful reminder to move in harmony with our own rhythm. Thank you for honoring the slow becoming — and for putting such tender truth into words.

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    1. msaitsabuncu Avatar

      Thank you so much for these heart-deep words. 🌿
      Indeed, there’s something sacred in slowing down and allowing life to unfold without pressure.
      I’m truly touched that this piece resonated with you.
      May we all learn to walk in rhythm with our inner seasons.
      Sending light and peace your way.

      Beğen

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